So, either you try to learn as many things as possible, by studying HD on your own, or you spend your time by asking questions in the HD forums. Or, eventually, you ask a HD expert to help you to understand your chart.
Nonetheless, whether you're going through your HD experiment correctly or not, is not something that someone can see in your place. Yes, they can share their precious testimonial with you as well as providing you with helpful tools, but you're the only one who can get to know how things work for you and who can feel where you're at. Because it's all a matter of frequency, and it's up to you learning to recognize it for yourself. Because of that, it can be quite a challenge finding your way through it.
However, by keeping your commitment to your HD experiment in spite of the struggle, despair, hopelessness and uncomfortableness you inevitably meet on your path, you eventually get to a point of no return. Now, that can be an eye-opening experience, as you suddenly realize that things just take over. Your Incarnation Cross, your profile, even your capacity to follow your Strategy and Authority. You won't need to worry about any of that anymore.
And that's when you really get to see why we're so choiceless in this life. And why, ultimately, life is a ride.